I would love to be one of those women that can get on a computer and blog every day. I long for the time when I can do that. Mostly, because it will mean that I have internet in my house. :) I feel bad that I only ever read blogs and then I don't share anything in return. I feel a little selfish, so I humbly ask for forgiveness and patience as I get back into the blogging business. ;) With that-- here's what's been going on so far with the Burton's these past (almost) six months.
Ryan finished his second year of school with incredibly good grades. It looks like he will be making the Chancellors list this semester for the third time since he started school. After his finals are over next week he will have 5 Semesters left and then (barring any disasters or unless he decides to get a masters) he will be done-- Graduating December 2013! It makes me proud that he has been working so hard. And it's paying off! Because he is such an awesome person he....
Got a summer internship! He will be working for TME Inc. a construction company in Little Rock. He will be making twice as much an hour as well as working twice as many hours. He gets a WEEK of paid vacation time and the possibility of a future permanent job. We are SO excited about this and Ryan is confident that it is a job he can excell at and enjoy doing at the same time. :)
As for moi-- I started "working", I've been baby-sitting for some of the working mothers in my ward. Children ranging in ages from 2 weeks- 4 years. It can be challenging sometimes, but I love it. These angels teach me so much as I care for them. Chiefly patience, sometimes it's hard to learn, but I know it's worth it. Ryan was so excited when I started doing this (I watch them in my home) that he decided we should turn our spare room into a "playroom" so we bought a crib for the babies and a buch of toys and childrens books (mostly at second hand stores, because lets face it, We're poor ;)) and set it up! I will get a picture put up eventually of the playroom, because I am so happy with the way it turned out. We even moved one of our rocker recliners from the living room to the playroom so that I could rock the babies :) ALSO, plus side = being able to count all of it on taxes as a business expense. :)
Now, you may be asking-- Hey Cheryl, What about that last post, where you and Ryan were going to try and have a baby? What ever happened with that? Well, folks, We're still trying. No baby yet. :) I did go to the doctor in March and she diagnosed me with Polycysitic Ovarian Syndrome (PCOS) basically, I have a bunch of cysts on my ovaries which make my hormones go wacky, which makes me not ovulate. And you kinda have to have an egg to have a baby. lol. It causes alot of other problems too, it's hard to regulate my weight, I get sick alot, I have alot of back pain etc. It's not fun stuff. ANYWAY... she said I could start Clomid which is a prescription drug that MAKES you ovulate no matter what your hormones are like, it's expensive and my insurance doesn't cover it. So instead, I am going to start a regime of D-chiro-inositol (DCI) a nutritional supplement that basically regulates all of your hormones naturally. So that your body fixes itself. :) It's also not covered by my insurance, BUT it is much cheaper. Like, instead of $250 a month it's $50. which is much easier for me to work with . lol. It also has a very high success rate; so hopefully we'll get to make an announcement in the next couple of months. :)
So that's how life has been for us. Excluding of course any information on our callings in church. We both work with the youth and as such, we were called to be a Ma & Pa for our Youth Conference Pioneer Trek this June. So we've been preparing for that along with teaching on Sunday and Activities on Wednesdays and Saturdays, We love our callings and we love the youth that we get to interact with every week. :)
So yeah, life is good. Hopefully I will be able to do better at this whole "regular" blogging thing eventually, but until then....
;)
Monday, May 2, 2011
Saturday, December 25, 2010
A Christmas Morning to Remember!
Forever, Really.
So Ryan and I have been discussing expanding our family for the past year or so. I have known for awhile that I wanted to have kids quickly, Ryan has WANTED kids, he's just been a little concerned as to the cost and the hardships that can come with them. So it's kind of become a MAJOR source of many arguements, much stress, and some other very intense emotions between the two of us. Mostly, the thing we have "agreed" about, and I use that term incredibly loosly, is we won't stop it from happening.
I so hated that agreement. It made me feel like Ryan didn't want our kids, like he thought I wasn't good enough yet to be a mother, like he was KEEPING my kids from me.
I know that sounds rediculous. But it is how I felt.
A few weeks ago (I guess right after thanksgiving) We had a talk, a long, long, LONG talk. Anyway, Ryan ended up giving me a blessing, and afterwardsm I just told him "I Love You, and I know that you're scared, but Our kids want to be here, and you won't let them because you are afraid." as well as some other things. He said he would SERIOUSLY start thinking about having kids. I didn't think he meant it. It's happened before, I don't know if I'm just impatient or if he really does think about things this slowly, but when he starts thinking about things he could take months! Maybe even a whole nother YEAR! That prospect was not good for me, but I didn't want to argue anymore so I let it go.
This morning I recieved a Christmas present in the form of a letter. It said the following:
" Hey Cheryl, (you know, that one woman I love with all my heart)
I know that this isn't a real present, but I hope it will do. I wanted to give you a big surprise, and I think this is it, and I'm writing it in pen so you'll know I'm serious.
LET'S HAVE A BABY!
Go on, tell anyone you want. Shout it out to the world. I love you and I want tyou to be happy. Are you surprised?
I've been sitting on this decision now for about a week and a half. When I told you I'd think about it, I meant it, but Layne helped me make up my mind.
The last time Asha took Layne to school, Jennifer brought him upstairs with Athena, so I got to hold him. I was really happy to think I had some real reason to hold him. Anyway, it was after our deal that I was thinking about it and I decided that it would be so much better to hold my own kid even with all the challenges and hardwork that go with it.
I wanted you to have a good Christmas, and I wanted this to be a surprise, so I'm sorry if I've caused you any grief over the past week or so about having a baby.
Honey, I Love You, and I hope this Christmas will be a special one in your memory for a long time. Merry Christmas.
Love,
Ryan (That one guy who is kind of an idiot sometimes.)"
So we are actually going to TRY TRY TRY to have a baby! We Want A Baby! I Am So Excited! I feel So CLOSE to Ryan right now, like for the first time in a long time we are really unified in something. I think I am going to save this letter and put it in our baby book when I finally get pregnant.
And above all I have the most wonderful husband ever, and He is going to be a GREAT Daddy. :)
So Ryan and I have been discussing expanding our family for the past year or so. I have known for awhile that I wanted to have kids quickly, Ryan has WANTED kids, he's just been a little concerned as to the cost and the hardships that can come with them. So it's kind of become a MAJOR source of many arguements, much stress, and some other very intense emotions between the two of us. Mostly, the thing we have "agreed" about, and I use that term incredibly loosly, is we won't stop it from happening.
I so hated that agreement. It made me feel like Ryan didn't want our kids, like he thought I wasn't good enough yet to be a mother, like he was KEEPING my kids from me.
I know that sounds rediculous. But it is how I felt.
A few weeks ago (I guess right after thanksgiving) We had a talk, a long, long, LONG talk. Anyway, Ryan ended up giving me a blessing, and afterwardsm I just told him "I Love You, and I know that you're scared, but Our kids want to be here, and you won't let them because you are afraid." as well as some other things. He said he would SERIOUSLY start thinking about having kids. I didn't think he meant it. It's happened before, I don't know if I'm just impatient or if he really does think about things this slowly, but when he starts thinking about things he could take months! Maybe even a whole nother YEAR! That prospect was not good for me, but I didn't want to argue anymore so I let it go.
This morning I recieved a Christmas present in the form of a letter. It said the following:
" Hey Cheryl, (you know, that one woman I love with all my heart)
I know that this isn't a real present, but I hope it will do. I wanted to give you a big surprise, and I think this is it, and I'm writing it in pen so you'll know I'm serious.
LET'S HAVE A BABY!
Go on, tell anyone you want. Shout it out to the world. I love you and I want tyou to be happy. Are you surprised?
I've been sitting on this decision now for about a week and a half. When I told you I'd think about it, I meant it, but Layne helped me make up my mind.
The last time Asha took Layne to school, Jennifer brought him upstairs with Athena, so I got to hold him. I was really happy to think I had some real reason to hold him. Anyway, it was after our deal that I was thinking about it and I decided that it would be so much better to hold my own kid even with all the challenges and hardwork that go with it.
I wanted you to have a good Christmas, and I wanted this to be a surprise, so I'm sorry if I've caused you any grief over the past week or so about having a baby.
Honey, I Love You, and I hope this Christmas will be a special one in your memory for a long time. Merry Christmas.
Love,
Ryan (That one guy who is kind of an idiot sometimes.)"
So we are actually going to TRY TRY TRY to have a baby! We Want A Baby! I Am So Excited! I feel So CLOSE to Ryan right now, like for the first time in a long time we are really unified in something. I think I am going to save this letter and put it in our baby book when I finally get pregnant.
And above all I have the most wonderful husband ever, and He is going to be a GREAT Daddy. :)
Sunday, October 3, 2010
Forgiveness
I've been thinking alot about forgiveness the past few months.
I've always thought that I was good at forgiving,
My cousin shaved my eyebrows off of my face the day before I started first grade. I started school that year with eyebrows that my artistic older sister drew on to my face. I was like "What? He did something wrong? It's okay"
My little brother cut my arm open with a pair of scissors when I was 9. I was like "Okay, he's just little, he didn't know any better."
My older sister dumped me off of the couch and onto a plate when I was 11, causing me to get my elbow cut open all the way down to the bone and need 13 stitches. I was like "Okay, she didn't mean to"
My college boyfriend (whom I thought I was going to marry) dumped me over the phone from 3000 miles away over Easter weekend, with no explanation. I was like "Ouch this hurts! but.... It's proabably better this way."
My Husband does little things that bother me almost EVERY SINGLE DAY, and I'm like "Okay, we grew up differently."
See what I mean? Now that is not to say that I came to those reactions when those things first happened. I am almost positive that all of those experiences came with tears, fear, anger, and proabably a little bit of hate. and those are by far not the WORST things I've gone through in my life. but at some point I have always been able to forgive.
Why has it been so hard lately?
Oh well, I'll figure it out-- Someday.
I've always thought that I was good at forgiving,
My cousin shaved my eyebrows off of my face the day before I started first grade. I started school that year with eyebrows that my artistic older sister drew on to my face. I was like "What? He did something wrong? It's okay"
My little brother cut my arm open with a pair of scissors when I was 9. I was like "Okay, he's just little, he didn't know any better."
My older sister dumped me off of the couch and onto a plate when I was 11, causing me to get my elbow cut open all the way down to the bone and need 13 stitches. I was like "Okay, she didn't mean to"
My college boyfriend (whom I thought I was going to marry) dumped me over the phone from 3000 miles away over Easter weekend, with no explanation. I was like "Ouch this hurts! but.... It's proabably better this way."
My Husband does little things that bother me almost EVERY SINGLE DAY, and I'm like "Okay, we grew up differently."
See what I mean? Now that is not to say that I came to those reactions when those things first happened. I am almost positive that all of those experiences came with tears, fear, anger, and proabably a little bit of hate. and those are by far not the WORST things I've gone through in my life. but at some point I have always been able to forgive.
Why has it been so hard lately?
Oh well, I'll figure it out-- Someday.
Friday, July 9, 2010
Oh My Life.
So, I guess that my goal of updating my blog every week was a little, ummm.... lofty. How about I start with once a month. or when important things happen? Or.... maybe just when I have time? Lol. Well, it's July, things are slowing down and I'm finding more time and less things to stress about. That makes things alot easier for me... and for Ryan. Apparently, I'm not a very pleasant person when I have alot of things to do all at once. Something about yelling.. "I JUST WANT YOU TO HELP ME!" and "IT DOESN'T MATTER WHY! JUST DO IT!" I don't know, I have no recollection of that, but I don't doubt that at some point I did yell that. lol. Part of learning how to deal with each other, I guess. All I know is that I am very blessed to have such a wonderful husband that would give me everything that I want if he could. That is understanding of me and my incredible mood swings. Anyway, Here's what we've been up too.
1) Ryan got a pell grant. I am so excited for this because due to the fact that he already had scholarships to school, this money will basically come straight to us. :) That means we'll be able to do number two! (Hahahahaha--- gross.)
2) Buy a car! :D some would say, "Why is that good? you don't need any of that debt" but we don't look at it that way. We look at it as "WE NEED TO BUILD CREDIT SO WE CAN BUY A HOUSE." And buying this car is going to help us get there! Speaking of living arrangements...
3) We have realized that our apartment is too small. So, in September, along with an obscenely large change check, and a car.... we will be putting in our 30 days notice at our complex and moving in to a duplex. :D Ready for the kicker? Our two bedroom one bathroom duplex with a larger kitchen and breakfast bar, is less expensive than our one bedroom, second floor apartment. :) Neadless to say, I'm excited. Our main goal was to be moved in all the way by Thanksgiving... so that'll be exciting.
4) We are about to have the two most adorable nephews ever. Ryan's sister, Asha, is due the beginning of August, and my sister, Susan, is due the beginning of October. We are both incredibly excited for them!
5) We have been married for a year. It has been a learning experience, for both of us, on alot of different levels, and I think all of the mooning over each other was over after the first month, but we both have come out of it better I think. We went to Wild River Country (A local water park) and Red Lobster for our anniversary. It was Ryan's first time ever eating at that restaurant, he liked it, and I have to say, the service was incredible. I don't usually ask for certain servers, but I would certainly ask for Sky again.
So there's our updates, so far.
1) Ryan got a pell grant. I am so excited for this because due to the fact that he already had scholarships to school, this money will basically come straight to us. :) That means we'll be able to do number two! (Hahahahaha--- gross.)
2) Buy a car! :D some would say, "Why is that good? you don't need any of that debt" but we don't look at it that way. We look at it as "WE NEED TO BUILD CREDIT SO WE CAN BUY A HOUSE." And buying this car is going to help us get there! Speaking of living arrangements...
3) We have realized that our apartment is too small. So, in September, along with an obscenely large change check, and a car.... we will be putting in our 30 days notice at our complex and moving in to a duplex. :D Ready for the kicker? Our two bedroom one bathroom duplex with a larger kitchen and breakfast bar, is less expensive than our one bedroom, second floor apartment. :) Neadless to say, I'm excited. Our main goal was to be moved in all the way by Thanksgiving... so that'll be exciting.
4) We are about to have the two most adorable nephews ever. Ryan's sister, Asha, is due the beginning of August, and my sister, Susan, is due the beginning of October. We are both incredibly excited for them!
5) We have been married for a year. It has been a learning experience, for both of us, on alot of different levels, and I think all of the mooning over each other was over after the first month, but we both have come out of it better I think. We went to Wild River Country (A local water park) and Red Lobster for our anniversary. It was Ryan's first time ever eating at that restaurant, he liked it, and I have to say, the service was incredible. I don't usually ask for certain servers, but I would certainly ask for Sky again.
So there's our updates, so far.
Monday, June 7, 2010
June
Ah summer... when I was growing up, summer was always the season I looked forward to the most. Lazy Days, Sleeping In, Playing Outside, and best of all, No School! Now as an adult I think that summer is not my Least favorite season, but it certainly has lost it's number one spot. I'm SURE that part of it is because of this fact. There. Are. No. More. Lazy. Days. Let's talk about June for example, here's the things that are happening for the month.
5th-- Service Project with the Young Women
6th-- Teaching in Young Women
9th-- dance prep night
10-- Pre-Camp Hike... AND... My Mom's Birthday!
12th-- Family Birthday Party for my parents and I
14th-- My Birthday
15th-- Leave For Camp
16th-- Camp
17th-- Camp.... AND.... My Dad's Birthday!
18th-- Come home from Camp
19th-- Asha's Baby Shower AND My Aunts Anniversary Party in Pittsburgh
20th-- Father's Day
23rd-- Camp Awards Night
26th-- Adult Ward Party
27th-- One Year Anniversary
30th-- Missionary Zone Conference and Etiquette Dinner
Now honestly and truely, I enjoy and I am excited about all of the things on the above list. I just am thinking.... a mini vacation would be nice. Just 2 days. Please? 2 days in a row where I don't have to clean the apartment, or make dinner, or do anything. Is that too much to ask?
5th-- Service Project with the Young Women
6th-- Teaching in Young Women
9th-- dance prep night
10-- Pre-Camp Hike... AND... My Mom's Birthday!
12th-- Family Birthday Party for my parents and I
14th-- My Birthday
15th-- Leave For Camp
16th-- Camp
17th-- Camp.... AND.... My Dad's Birthday!
18th-- Come home from Camp
19th-- Asha's Baby Shower AND My Aunts Anniversary Party in Pittsburgh
20th-- Father's Day
23rd-- Camp Awards Night
26th-- Adult Ward Party
27th-- One Year Anniversary
30th-- Missionary Zone Conference and Etiquette Dinner
Now honestly and truely, I enjoy and I am excited about all of the things on the above list. I just am thinking.... a mini vacation would be nice. Just 2 days. Please? 2 days in a row where I don't have to clean the apartment, or make dinner, or do anything. Is that too much to ask?
Thursday, June 3, 2010
A New Beginning!
Hello! This blog is to chronicle, our life together and keep people in the loop. I've tried blogging with little-to-no success before, but I'm making a goal to update this blog at least once a week. This will usually be done by Cheryl, rarely (if ever) by Ryan. :) So that's what'll will happen. So a quick introduction.
Cheryl-- currently is a homemaker who spends A LOT of time on her calling as Young Women First Counselor (some would even say too much, but not her) She likes to go to the library and check out cookbooks so she can find new recipes to find. She loves finding new foods to try and new crafts to do. She enjoys scrapbooking, decoupaging, and painting, but if you ask her to sew, it's a big fat no. (mostly because her sewing machine hates her, and she's afraid of it eating her hand) lol. One of her favorite things to do is Interior Decorating, and she looks forward to the day when she has her own house she can paint and nail things to the wall in. :)
Ryan-- is a student at the University of Arkansas of Little Rock (where he also works) as a Construction Engineering Major. He is the Elders Quorum Secretary as well as an Assistant Stake Clerk. He works hard, but he loves going with Cheryl on Wednesday Nights to her mutual activities so he can play with the little kids that are always running around the building. He knows when and how to have fun when it's time. :)
Cheryl and Ryan-- were married on June 27th, 2009 in the Memphis Temple for the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints. They both agree that it was one of the best days of their lives. They are both looking forward to buying a car, buying a house, and having a baby. ESPECIALLY having a baby. :)
Cheryl-- currently is a homemaker who spends A LOT of time on her calling as Young Women First Counselor (some would even say too much, but not her) She likes to go to the library and check out cookbooks so she can find new recipes to find. She loves finding new foods to try and new crafts to do. She enjoys scrapbooking, decoupaging, and painting, but if you ask her to sew, it's a big fat no. (mostly because her sewing machine hates her, and she's afraid of it eating her hand) lol. One of her favorite things to do is Interior Decorating, and she looks forward to the day when she has her own house she can paint and nail things to the wall in. :)
Ryan-- is a student at the University of Arkansas of Little Rock (where he also works) as a Construction Engineering Major. He is the Elders Quorum Secretary as well as an Assistant Stake Clerk. He works hard, but he loves going with Cheryl on Wednesday Nights to her mutual activities so he can play with the little kids that are always running around the building. He knows when and how to have fun when it's time. :)
Cheryl and Ryan-- were married on June 27th, 2009 in the Memphis Temple for the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints. They both agree that it was one of the best days of their lives. They are both looking forward to buying a car, buying a house, and having a baby. ESPECIALLY having a baby. :)
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